Think the person posting the thread is a guy pretending to be a girl wanting to generate ideas....kinda like me..hate these things where you dont really care but have to do something just not to disappoint. Specially when that you have to live with that person (whom you love, of course) and who amazingly can only remember the things you did not do 10 years down the road, not the things you did without it having to be an occasion :) remember the bud light commercial where the dude at the beer store remembers it is valentines day while waiting to checkout with his 12 pack, and then grabs one of those generic cards hanging for sale by the register? that should do the trick :) Its the thought that counts!!!