hey shawty, 1) just smack the guy if it is brutally offensive and uncalled for. 2) on another note, did you intend to give him the impression that you are sexually desirous ? :P...don't wear too skimpy clothes dear there is a beast world out there ! OR at least be prepared for minor assaults at your expense. BUT, don't you ever get bogged down! there are good men out there as well. 3) on a serious note, i don't fall sort of giving plaudits to open-minded and transparent people. decency apart, at least they sound what they have in mind - better than those hypocrites who start with lovey dovey conversations with lots of promises and ultimately end up dumping girls soon after they're done. better to know their actual intentions in advance ni haina? just my thoughts hai! LooTe