Kalebhut is 100% right. The biggest risk we ever take in life is- getting married. There is nothing bigger than this. We can always re-arrange or put back everything the way it was once we lose or break, but the marriage thing is impossible. Once we break this, we can never glue the pieces the way they were before. I'm also trying to get married. I am trying to to find someone thru arrange fashion. Tired of playing cat & mouse game. The fear factor is there not onl y for girls but also for guys. And ai'm a very liberal and reasonalble person. So, g'luck to all of us! :)