I regularly update myself with posting on sajha.Its a great place to be...nice postings ,interesting jokes and of course interesting people.Time and again we have all these postings about sex..not just sex but sex related with particular race. Is sex ,size of di(ks or in that case depth of vagina a racial thing???? My experience of di(ks that I have seen (not looked...hopefully u know the difference) have me wonder if it is a racial thing? when at school -in the gym or now at golds i find some people bigger than me ....like 4-5 inches taller than me have smaller di(ks andpeople smaller than me have larger ones.So is it a racial thing or something u r born with????? In that case does sex affect ur relationship with loved ones???I have seen postings where it says...good sex makes u love the person more...is that true???? If that was the case why do the people bigger built than us have more problems with their personal and emotional life??makes me think do u want to have sex with ur loved one or u love the person whom u have sex with???? I also think it depends upon the level of society u live in and deal with.having more than one partners even in westernn culture is seen with a raised eyebrow.like i said earlier it depends whom u hangout with and where do u want to be.Most of us who come to America with a dream after few yreas living with financial hardship forget what this great country has to offer..do u think ubelong in the same class as ur fellow gas station clerk??? do u think our family back home live in same emotional and behavour disarray as ur fellow clerk does....no we dont ..so if we donot live in the same class why cant we find a better class for us???why cant we be more respectful of our culture and behave like a neplese???? I am not sure how many agree with me and absolutly making love is the most intimate thing in a relationship so why make it so cheap????