Well, Ashu, I don't give a rat's ass whether you post with your own real name or your own real pseudonym. It does not matter to me one way or the other. You are what you write, at least here in Sajha. So please spare me your "holier-than-thou because I write with my real name attached" argument. It just does not hold any water. Now, from what you posted above, in your opinion, this forum is bare knuckle combat sport where all is fair. So, according to you, it is ok to disregard other's privacy and talk about their personal lives. Is that what you are saying? Before you answer that you might want to go back into your closet and make sure there are no skeletons whatsoever.