. That is true.. It is similar in my case. I am visiting Sajha since it started. It has been a while,.... I think it was after Royal massacre. Threads with Bahunism started by some Sajha members. Actually Sajha has become a sick-bag like in aeroplane,..... people come and vomit here in Sajha everything from last 238 years of history. My opinion is everybody should be allowed to tell everything about their castes and triebes. More you talk more it become transparent. We were not allowed to talk about ourselves for 238 years. But Time has changed now. So I believe it is just a transitional period of multi cultures in nepal. It takes a while to digest all those differences. We are fighting each other today because........................ Shah Dyanasty could not raise us in open and free multicultural environment. They were busy themselves in powergames inside the royal palace all the time. They always tried to bring racial diferences in between us so that we do not become united and stay weak. It is the same with the religion. We are today in different world and we have to think different. Let´s join hands together and do something together... .