Real me, Sex is a carnal desire - part physical, part psychological. Love is completely different. Love is much bigger than sex or anything else. When I say "love" it is not limited to love between a man and a woman. Love can exist in any form. As far as your case is concerned, I am not judging you but I will have to say that "cheating" is not a solution unless you are willing to end the relationship with the man you are "in love with". Reminds me of something that comedian Carlos Mencia once said. When a woman cannot get satisfied (sexually) or cannot reach an orgasm - its our (men's) fault. But when a man fails to reach an orgasm, it's again we who have to see the doctor. Hmm?