i would suggest you to be positive. try to adjust with him. do whatever he says. ek thappad galama hanyo bhane arko gala pharkaideu. ek latto hanyo bhane, arko pani han bhana. bear all the domestice violence, keep it up. when u get your time, then rub his nose with your foot and get the hell out of their and find a new nepalese boy. Make sure when u get rid from him, don't suggest any nepalese girl to get married with american assholes......... there are still thousands of genius and potential nepalese boys in USA. god bless you good luck.