abuse is an abuse; verbal, mental, physical, sexual , whatever... he's kickin her out of the apt in middle of night... must be blackmailing her for sex and other favors , which is a rape... by the way reese: if he's blackmaling you for sex, forcing you for anything even if you do not feel like it.. it's a rape.. you can put that hobo for few years behind the bar for that, just so you know....