You can't sail on two boats at the same time. Make a choice which boat you want to sail with; before you sink down to the bottom and there will be no boat for you to sail on. To make a decision on which boat to board on, find out where it is going; Meaning do you have a the same interest, same likes and dislikes, does your thought match with each other, ambitions. Instead of looking on how hot they is or beautiful they looks from outside, see how beautiful they looks from inside (Not inside their cloths) Outer beauty last 2 days inner beauty lasts forever. Sit and think deep in a peace, about which girl you truly want to or can spend rest of your life with. And chose the girl that comes first in your subconscious.