man!!! this dude peter is up with some kinda relationship-based thread each day. looks like he is either making fool out of all of us or to sound a bit discourteous, if i may, is seriously in need of a therapy. :P this one prolly one of the most weird questions i have seen being asked here. dude, u need to get over your low self-esteem man. how on earth are you going to approach a woman if you don't have a confidence in yourself or for her? u don't even seem to know abc of love/relationship, let alone it's gist and responsibilties. pardon me but i really need to know your age before i could suggest anything to you. u don't even know the girl personally and u've started to think about conjugal life wow, that's very uncool of you bud! if you really want to take my suggestion, don't hasten and think 10 times before you commit yourself. at the risk of sounding cynical, i must tell you, do the self-analysis prior to coming to a decision. make sure you're doing what u want to. forgive me being presumptuous, if i have, but u sound like a little bro to me. all you need to do now is focus on your studies and career before letting yourself commit towards more responsibilities. it's never too late to find a girl and pursue a married life, but god forbids, if you screw up with your studies or career at this stage, which needs more attention on your part, it's gonna fracture your whole life. please take this as an honest suggestion from your elderly brother if you count me in. good luck! LooTe