peter oh peter... ur in a position where i guess a lot of guys who would like to be in..i mean not takin the marrigage part into account..that word scares me but seems like u def are braver than me ;oP hehe.. as u said u been talkin to her on the fone for the past few weeks..so i guess when u meet her for the 1st time both of u can try to pick up from the where both of u stopped in the last fone call?.. since its the 1st time ur meetn her..guess u shud keep down ur expectations as low as u can..as they say the best things happen when least expected..thats wat i heard anyways ;oP sayn it is easy..but well good luck on not gettn too nervous esp with the occasion and the crowd..just shut off the crowd and focus on her?im sure thats possible?.hopefully u dun have 2 left feet and a wooden body like me ;oP..esp since its a party and well there be music?and dances?and esp if she likes/wants to dance?..but well that be good thingy if u got the moves?hehe.. anyways good luck again..and hope all goes well.. good day!:oD