The domination against Medhesis is the result of mistaken identity, they have to understand that. Once the confusion is clear, they are not taunted after that. I know many people rom madesh, we are as good friends as others. But they have to admit that indians are taking advantage of their identity. Many of the people who come to work in kathmandu act as if they are from madesh, but infact they would be from bihar. They know they are not made fun of once people know they r nepali. Mistakes made unknowingly should be forgiven, they are not intentional. But many madhesis like tarai_basi make fun of pahadiyas knowing they are nepali. The question is not whether you should forgive us or not? all were done unintentionallly. ...... but if should you be forgiven spitting venom against nepalese in full conciosness????? ne23pe, if they don't understand ..... there r other ways to make them understand ........ laat ko bhut baat le mandaina.