Wow! I am humbled by all your responses. Good to see all of you. You care what I say and that's a treat to me in this otherwise mundane friday. I am not a net fanatic. I meet with some nepali buddies of my place once in a while. Someone said a lot of things about this site. It took me a month to build up the curiosity to a level when I decided to register myself as a user. As of now, I have gone through only disappointment though. May be there is other side of sajha which is not so conspicuous. I may want to oogle through it. But am harassed by some worthless to a couple of pennies worth discussions. No offense but: What did you have for lunch - Why not sms your bf/gf and ask/tell him/her. Why sajha? Person above me - Why not email him/her and know more about him/her in person? My favorite body parts - Why not look into the mirror and keep your penny with yourself? A gift for my valentine - Why not use the time of coming in sajha to going to a gift shop? EXPLORE! Some sensible discussions like that in the "marwari" thread and others deserve a better place....not in a podium where personal stuffs get the higher priority. I feel cheated!