ok in this whole intercast talk is being held at the expense of bahun girls. just like the whole interracial relationship phenomenon is happening at the expense of black girls. and i think there is a similarities between these 2 types of girls (bahun & blacks) -- both very strong opinionated (and i mean it as a compliment) and would rarely go outside their own kind (race / caste). so, kudos to the bahun brothers for crossing the caste barrier and a reminder to the bahun sisters as you girls still have a lot of catching up to do (and no crossing the border barrier by having indian partner doesn't count as most of them are still brahmins) LOL