Dude, there is no use of being so hostile for a tradition. And telling someone to keep their ass in Nepal is totally uncalled for. Why are you posting on a Nepali forum if you have rejected Nepali customs? I don't mean to judge you but if you are going to criticize someone for still sticking to some of his/her traditional aspects, then I don't think you should be posting here as well, because this is part of maintaining an identity of who we are here in the United States. You see, I didn't put it up there to force anyone to listen to it. It's your choice if you want to listen to it or not. I just put it so that those who do want to hear it have it readily available. And who says it is wrong to read the Swasthani in America? Religion and traditions affect all, and there is no reason to give up your traditions, who you are, just because you are in another country. Sure there is "Jaisa desh waisa bhesh" but one does not have to completely convert. db