I still remember how I felt as a child growing up .......my mom used scare me saying ..suta babu natra madishee le poko ma hale ra laijancha........getting bigger .....I dont remember who taught me but me and all the kids of our tole used to taunt madishee Bhayias........madiesee log bhari bok ek paisa dinchu khutta dhog.... we were just little kids...and we got a kick out of it..........later growing older.....I noticed that bhayias were doing pretty much everything like selling fruits, vegetables, collecting trash, beer bottels for money and pan shops and hair saloons........And other works. I always thought they were Indians because they talked Nepali funny and we always talked to them in Hindi to buy stuff.........When I went to high school...Kalamati looked like a Indian town and so did new road as walls were painted with the red spit of pan and suraj arked is a good example of it. That place smelt like piss and pan and agarbatti.....loud hindi music............later the discrimination against bhayias got worse as they took over kalamati.............Im sure many of us know the famous phrase used by the bhayias to the common people who tried to discriminate a bhayia......KALI MATI MA TA AAIJA TALAI DEKHAIDINCHHU................they became bolder and bolder. But they were always seen as a different kind of people ..........they always hanged around with their own kind and had their own way of life different than a regular Nepali.....but that doesnt mean they were not Nepali.............Some of them were Biharis too who looked alike the Nepali madishee and many were caught scamming the common people which might have added to the way they were all treated. I really came to my senses when I made good freinds with some madhishe car mechanics who lived next door and had a better understanding towards their way of life and after that I never did anything bad or discriminating to the bhayias.............I made many friends and I did respect their services to the common people...............I really feel bad why this is happening but I really blame for the different mentality we were forced to believe and grow up with ....Both ways madishe and the pahadi people...........they feel different and we treat them different...But reality they are Nepalese and we ought to respect that.........EXPECT THE ONES THAT COME FROM BIHAR INDIA AND ruin the reputation of ouy nepali madishes.