You might be new to this country....probably you would hang on to the college computers all day long.....try to find those old connections and sign on to yahoo and msn messeenger just to chat with ur frens.....a lot of thoughts and challenges is overwhelming your mind...u don't know where to go from here......this is a road unfamiliar to you with unknown alleys and twist and turns........lucky are the ones who have relatives who really do care about you and have already some roots in this place....but to all those unfortunate ones who are just trying to figure out a way ,,,,, without anyone to turn to.......with no one to take advice from...and u just call your hawa friends and share whatever information you have on hand ..make some jokes and thats just a bit fo fun......right...BEEN THERE PALS!!!!!!!!! so this thread is dedicated to all the ones that are strangers in this lonely road........So fellow WONDERFUl SAJHA FRENS lets make this thread a real informative, fun to all those new ones......ALl we can do is give you some suggestions and here is some from my side... 1. Do not worry ...it looks like a steep hill that you can never conquer..but don't give up the hope......in NO time you guys will be seeing a new horiZon after this... 2. Always hang on to your friends.....share and care each other....do you know what comes around goes around.... 3. Do not hesitate to find some one from your own country who have already travelled ahead of you..get some advice 4 . In any work.....if someone comes to get the money on tip of the gun....just give it to them....you don't have anything to loose....the owners already have insurance and stuff... 5. Be aware of internet fraud and scandal........do not sign up for anything that is too luring...you might up end up wasting money for no reason. 6.Always drive carefully...........and do not operate on interstate and highways if you do not have enough confidence...always practice in quite and slow roads. 7. If you are under the age of 21 ....u are underage to drink ...never accept liquors even in social events....you might be in trouble along with the guy that served you that... 8. Be careful with gays.........our too strong bond and friendship with guys is seen somewhat different by the americans ..coz they percieve things differentyl....