man a whole buncha bokas in this thread. Suntalimai- alikati you need to change your behaviour pani. He will automatically retract. Is he Nepali? Nepali guys are naam matra ko bokas. Sexx bhanepachi they're all a buncha chickens. aba if he's white or black- they won't hold back because they were brought up in a more open society. But if he's a Nepali brought up in the US and born here and is a boka like you say- he won't hold back either. So be careful. And no, don't go around screwin cuz if you do end up with a nice guy in the end, you won't be able to stand up to him and look him straight in the eye because of all the screwin around you did. I, however, could be wrong about the last statement.