I don't really post in archaic threads, but aren;t you sending all the signals? If girls can be open and act friendly to guys and realize that they're not trying to attract him, they should also realize that guys will get the signal (or the wrong message) and hit on you and when you turn them down, they'll feel sad. So girls need to realize that just becuse they're being friendly doesn;t mean they're being totally sincere. And hugging? Why do you gotta hug all the time? Stop hugging guys. They'll think you're really into them. Now i'm not sure if you're in the US or Nepal but you have to realize societies are usually conservative. As a smart girl, you should realize being too open isn;t good for the image especially if you overdo it. And since you claim you're hot, well, i guess that says it all.