well, it's not about how much she loves you, to me the real question is: can i live without her? i am tryin to answer this question by putting myself in his shoes and i was about to write " if i were him, i would shoot her to death". but that would just be a 'rush of blood' answer. in reality, i would not able to do that. and if i am in love with her, i would not be able to live without her at any cost-that's my point. so at the end of the day, i would end up forgiving her. i don't think i would have a choice.... LooTe