Its just so easy to say ForgivE her, everyone does mistake, its human life blah blah... but in REALITY its tough, really tough. I can never imagine my GF sleeping with someone else, Oh man how disgusiting it sound. Well, something similar happend to me couple of years back. I was dating one girl (European), to be honest, I did not like her but it was a kind of FUN RELATIONSHIP. We enjoyed being together and sometime did not meet even for a month thugh we live in same city and sometime our meetings was regular like everyday. Gradually, she started giving much care and calls 10 times a day, I hardly responded her coz I did not have strong feelings for her. AFter few weeks in one meeting she disclosed that she is in love with me. ( I was not surprised and did not take serioulsy). For me she was just the girl next door, nothing more than that. One day she sent me really long mail that she slpet with some other guy, she was drunk and she feels so sorry for that. She continued that she stil loves me as before and want to be honest with me so she told everything. Having said that, if that was her mistake, she was ready for any punishment. After that mail, I went really mad. I never thought I cd be so anxious with that matter. Every night i imagine her having sex with some other guy. I put somone else in my foot who is having fun with her.......I SPENT SLEEPLESS NIGHTS. I did not know what was that? Ego? Jealousy? Pride? Possesiveness? being Stupid man or just it was normal but I felt realy humiliated. How could I forgive her and the point here is I even did not love her. Oh mY god what could have been the scenario if I was in LOVE??? and moreover if the girl were Nepali :........ Harman, I can understand what is going on you, man it felt really sad.......though u say I wil forgive and forget. wELL, U MAY forgive but DIFFICULT to forget.........it haunts man..... Well, after that incident, I met her couple of times and broke up. I was never in love with her but I think I was stupid to be so Possessive. Hmmm, now im dating one more Westerner but so far things r going welll but don know how long............LIFE goes ON......... ------------ Anyway, Good luck man