“Financially, Looks , social class and above all Personality ?” I don’t know how often do people actually go for these criterions. If you ACTUALLY love somebody, then I don’t think you pre-formulate. Love just happens; no wonder we have sayings like “Love is Blind” (but what the heck). But now when a person literally tries to persuade himself/herself into taking such considerations once he/she is ALREADY in a relationship then I have some questions first: Everything besides “personality”, who gives more preference? A Guy or a gurl? A dumb question yet in the search of an answer. Girls can be taken into consideration, as she is to marry that person, perhaps she is trying to secure herself (especially if she knows she is not gonna work later or knows she is gonna be a “dependant” wife ). So, do guys look for a “financially stable, upper-class beautiful women ?” If yes, why? My next question will be, Is long-distance relationship worth the wait? When I say “wait”, I mean a 3-4 yrs wait. Especially, if you are confused: if this person is the right one for you. If this person has problems with many things u do and yet is a “head-over-heels”, lunatic lover. U are still trying to figure out if u’re gonna live happily married life and see 50-50 chances (oh god! I’m complicating now :s) The biggest question: How do u actually distinguish between love and obsession? Yet in my personal opinion, and from what I’ve seen of others, a person going for high class, handsome dude with tons of money and dynamic personality usually lands up having a messed up life and the old saying goes “lobh ma laap, laap ma bilaap”. :P but when we talk about leaving sb for sb “better”……..wht plays a major role? Perhaps, long distance….as u have more time to sit and compare :P