Tisa - Thanks for the response. One thing I wanted to point out was this is an article in the style section and not in the op-ed one of the Times. I have often had to take things in the matrimonial sections of *any* newspaper with a grain of salt - and parts of this article are no exception. Aiight, I had fun in this thread, am off to my next adventure now :) Nice talking to you all - have a good one!