pandey jee keep trying. you will get it. i suggest you to change the message and write new one, therefore, people won't get tired of looking at your old message.don't put your picture.people make fun of your picture. if girls want, they will email u. girls want very simple guy. i would go ahead and change the expectation because it is complicated and hard to understand what kind of girl would u looking for. Your message shows that you are possessive in nature. girls don't like it. To be possessive is not to love rather considered a domination on the part of male. I dont know if u are only making issue in the sajha and having fun of getting comments. I still tell you to change the expectation in a simple language rather than showing your developmental jargon in your language. that will definitely better you off. take care and good luck jayamatadi