"It is not to say that we don't care about our parents or love them any less. But when that special person enters your life, he/she illuminates your being in such a blaze that obliterates everything else. Loyalties shift, priorities alter, not just in your viewpoint, but also in the eyes of those around you. " ww, couldn't have said it better. u spoke my mind! :P...on a similar note, when u will get married and have lovely "bhantyang-bhuntungs" (kids), the optical center of the 'love lens' will then shift more towards them from your better half! strange it is indeed... this four lettered magical word called L-O-V-E. :P LooTe PS "pheri pani mero kehi gunaso chhaina" hahahaha :P