well Mr.Denverbroncos (by the way broncos sucks...no offense), It seems to me like to me that you are control freak...and u dont "love" the person that u are with coz who would in their right mind would "Always verbal and physical abuse" their loved ones. And if u do really love them as much then u should let them go...being with u is just gonna hurt them mentally and physically. PS as for your temper issues....go get checked-in Just a thought ;) rani