Hydrogen! I completely feel your sentiment. Real world is different from what we learned in moral science series and what our conscience suggests. Here is one conclusion or a defense-mechanism to abide by that I have come up with. Always try to avoid arguing/discussing with people who cannot think on the same or above your own level. Coz that takes the take-away nowhere after all of those words are exchanged and time is invested. I have heard from people and experienced myself as well about about these kaales and kaalis. Looking back at their wretched history of how they arrived and lived here and what is going on in their home continent, you try to be sympathetic to them. But most of them try to actually put you down and make your life a misery. Those in the lot have no sense of diplomacy whatsoever. Now having said that, I would not start hating them but would try to avoid dealing with them or if the job makes not-dealing impossible, try not to start another one( gotta be practical right?) and learn to adapt. Dial 911 when appropriate and stay out of trouble. Good luck.