"Too much familarity breeds contempt" And there are some who are envious of others progress and some are plainly too inquisitive and don't really know what should be asked and what shouldn't!! I think the Indians have progressed because they remain united and help each other to rise and advance forward whereas it is not in our case and therefore only a few have risen. Why do we fear being near our own people?? Isn't it sad that even when we are far from home we feel better off not being near our own people!!! This explains a lot that people who come here in the beginning act completely different and get the required help and then once they are quite capable they become so ungrateful and start talking ill of the ones who helped them to settle down.