BostonGirl, u may have posted this thread to know how ur guy might be thinking after ur disapproval . Well, when we care someone so much and when that someone means a lot to us then theres always a part of us which made us scared of lossing the grip and ruining the realtionship. Even though we have enuff faith with each-other, Surroundings around us always keeps on putting us in complex worries. I guess, its good to be worry in some way as this worrying time do help us to figure out what we want out of our life.But i dun think you will get precise answer-to-your-question over here. Becuz, remember?? different person with different personality and different ideology??. Yes, u may figure out general conclusion from the posts over here but that might not be the ultimate answer...only your Bf can answer u in the most convincing and real way. About convincing ur parents, try more. Bcuz they are your parents and they always want the best for u. theres no love in this whole world which is more pure and affetionting than the parents love is. HOw about keeping ur parents in one place and you saying them in a cool mood with a direct eye contact-" hajur haru ko j decision hunchha i will go for that . mero laghi hajur ko thau ma khoi pani auna sakdaina not even my bf . But i want you to know hajur haru ko chori loves him and i want you both to try to understand him in positive ways . yadi hajur haru le (mention ur bf name) mero laghi khojye ko keta bhaye ko bhaye jun way ma uh sangha react garnu hune thiyo exactly thehi way ma(mention ur bf name) pani chance dinu ra thehi way ma uslai assess garnu hoss.Hajur hajur ko chori ko laghi yo chance dinu hoss plz. whatever your decision will be after knowing him in better ways i will GO for that. Hajur haru ko chori ho ma so beleive me mero choice hajur haru ko bhandha vinna huna sakdaina, just hajur haru autta chance dinu, uslai bujane ra usle hajur haru lai bujaune...this is all i want to say! " ...yes, parents always takes their child as a kid but when u will communicate coming to their level of conversation then i m sure they will think over it and they will perceive u as a grown up lady. U know?? parents tries to control our life bcuz they take us as a small kid but once u can convince them that u are not anymore 5-6 yrs but u are matured enuff then they will begin to respect ur decision. Hey u have talked only about ur parents...how about guy's parents??...i suppose it wud be more appropirate to arrange a meeting for your both parents and let them discuss over it bcuz u two have decided what u want and for a healthy relation both sides parents need to agree as well...mariage is a big thing , atleast it is for me...eheh. wish u luck and i will always say try to convince your parents b4 u jump up into other things.