Boston girl, I agree with esctasy. Ask your heard more than to Sajha. Like esctsay has told here you get people asking “how may times you have sx etc". Nevertheless, there are people who have gone through the similar problems and take the problems very personally and try to give decent suggestion. As for me, I think you know your problem best than any other so you can decide best on your problem. But surely suggestions from all can help you to make a better decision. Ask your heart, is this guy all for your life? Can you be with this guy all your life (forget about your parents now). If your answer is 50.1 % yes, go for it. Every Parents love their children no matter what. And it’s not their problem that they are reluctant to your proposed guy. Remember they are one generation behind us and they were grown in Nepal where people are so free to talk about others and have no work at all. So obviously they are tensed how they gonna convince the society and other relatives for whom this is a great masala for full one month talk. If you decision is to go with your guy, ask the guy that you expect live to your parents from his side always. That’s is the best thing you and your guy can give to your parentss. Love them more and support them more….because as you two get together permanently their problem will start and they will be needing best support of your (even if they say they don’t wanna see you nowonwards). All the best.