Well Bostan girl Nepalese parents always try to emotionally blackmail their children.They dont let thier children do unless they also like the fact.Ma "maridinchu" is the common one. I know one of my friends mum is saying this for last 6 months but he has not yet done so, I have been telling him she wont die , just do the thing you want and marry you gf but he is hesitating.I hate this bullshiiiiiiit from nepalse parents. here is the story I know when I was in Australia .One girl I know had BF and she wanted to marry him , Her parents said hundaina, we want khandani keta , this and that , we are from "THIS" family and all that. After finding out that the guy was from better family or I would say from dhani family her mom instantly said yes.They were supposed to marty but one day the guy became ill and was hospitalized. Her parents immidately called her and asked her to leave that guy because he no longer was good enough.They threatened her with emotioanal things. She listened and left him. Later the guy died when we took him back to Nepal where his last wish was to see her . He told everyone for 3 months that he wants to see her. She never went to see him. Same girl, called her parents one day and asked , mum and dad, there are two guys who just proposed me , one is indian and one is pakistani , kun sanga biha garau? her parenst told her which one is PR(PR is same as Green card in AUS). Girl answered Indian one? Then marry the Indian.She is happliy( I suppose )married to that guy with two children. you know Why I told this story even though i hate this girl. Nepalese parents haru Dahni manche khojchan. Love and nationlaity is not a matter to them , if your guy was multimillionare your mum would defenetaly say yes.Heart doesnot work for Nepalese parents.Money , status and GC does. My advice ask your heart not sajha , here you get people like "how may times you have sx etc" . have a happy life. cheers