OK ji, I admire your writting skill. It is really a heart breaking story. Though I came across this thread before, but I did not follow it thoroughly. Today, I managed to read all; I also think that with proper editing this material can be a potentially best-selling book manuscript. But on other aspects, I wonder how seriously you thought about the privacy matters- not only of your family memebrs but also of Manju's and her parents. Your response to some of the comments says "it is real story except change in character's name", but the name of the place is real, right? So, many can guess who you are! I agree with some of the observation bideshi made above. It seems that you have high IQ but terrible EQ (sorry, no offense intended!) Neutral -------------------------------------