Hey boston girl..... you know I read the thread very nicely and I am trying to help you out..... all coz you know mah sisters marriage was ruined..... I don't want to see any of the nepalese gals and guys suffering after their marriage.. I wish their life to be happy one...... Well you know there is 2 totally different aspects in ur house boston gal.. One you modern gal wid ur b.f who is in the United States.. you guys definitely have got the 21st century taste within them..... Well ur parents were not here that long... I guess.. they are pure nepali people you know they lived their married life out there in Nepal.. and they have got the nepali taste of life...... I guess you are proud to be called a Nepalese.......If you marry a guy marry wid him wid whom you'll be happy and after marriage ur family will be happy ever after....... But you know waht...... bostongirl that's not the case in urs.......... I do favour love marriage.. I do have mah girl friend and we doo have palnneed to marry after 5 years.. that's a lot... well you know what sshe is a nepali gal.. but you know things change in the 5 years.. Well we may marry each other and live happily and we may end up preety soon..... who knows........ Well take marriage seriously.... hai.. you know marriage ain't a joke...... it's a part of life...... after which you'll have a different phase of life.. the pashe of life completely changes.. like the in the life cycle of a frog.. or any living thing...... Well after marriage you wont' be a gal.. you'll be a wife.. and after couple years of marriage you'll me a mom and you will have a family..... you know.. think seriously before you go for the decision...... Think will you be happy after you'll marry him...... coz life is uncertain it brings different bad and good tastes in life..... are you sure that you'll be able to cope wid all those problems that will arise in ur life after you are wid that guy........ And you know what ........ it's sometimes good to change decision....... You know what the last decision made my change ur life..... it may make ur life a good one and who knows it will be better for him.......... there is alot of people in this world.. you know in america people marry more than normal nepalese people do....... So, you are in the world of 21st century..... if you want to go and marry and get divorced if you ain't satisfied wid the life you are living wid the guy.... then go wid ur b.f........ Well if you don't like that kinda of life then go wid a good guy who is frm the nepali society..... I am not a racist...... alright..... you can go wid anyone..... you like I hope the things may turn out good coz you'll be marrying to a nepalese guy and ur parents will be happy.... you know what parents sees a great dream of sending their children to a good home........ you know..........!!!!!!!!!! i hope you know coz it's said daughter knows the pain of parents more than sons re..... malai ta tha chaina....... khai testaii ho jastoo lagcha...... I'll suggest you to go wid a nepali guy..... but I am not forcing you...... well just a kind of suggestion....... well I am a supporter of love marriage.. hai tai pani..... sry for not supporting love marriage this time....... coz you know waht sometimes it's better to change decisions...............