I dont see serious problem here at all. Marriages are supposed to be like experiment or gamble...just like in experiments or gamble it is supposed to be filled with excitement, fun, surprise, adventure and total thrill...and so shuld be the process of doing so. Personally, I dont care about the end results...because unlike the popular saying "THERE MIGHT NOT BE SECOND CHANCE", in reality life does offer second chances...the thing is you gotta do some research. Bottom line is if you try hard to please everyone else you'll become the one to be the least pleased in the end.