naaa you didnt mess up. Look he was there at the time and he knew how you were and what was going on and all that stuff soo he should be able to understand just dont say the same thing again next time he asks lol cuz that would really hurt a guy. And about your parents its your life not theres and i know its hard to think like that cuz nepali parents are all crazy but its true. It your life you do what ever you want and if they dont accept that then i donno wtf is wrong with em lol. But anywho congrats on getting asked to get married and pretty sure you are gonna get engaged soon so congrats on that too. Peace