sorry i screwed up the post! :P here's my first point again. 1) it seems that you love your bf and he does love you too. 3.5 years!!! hmmm...and it sounds like you are not just another teenybopper so you guys must be serious in your relationship...in a nutshell you guys want to marry..correct? in other words, is theis the person you want to marry with? be honest ! LooTe