Things had been tensed between my family and me for a long time but became worse since my mom decided to come and change my mind. Parents do have a lot of emotional control over their kids and I think mothers are specially good at putting all the guilt by saying 'how can you do this to me?' Swatantratagaamy, I thought I cant be crying for the whole evening and then step out for a minute with my bf..and then walk back in with a ring on my finger. But it all happened too fast and my head was all over the place. I think he chose to propose at that time coz he wanted to let me know (despite my mom's accusations) that he had every intention of sticking by my side...through highs and lows...I think he was emotionally charged too, not just me. I am just hoping its gonna happen again, when both of us have positive energy around us and that he didnt take it personally.