Girl, if you love him and if you are not cheating him, go for the wedding. But think twice before you jump on conclusion if this person is right for you or no. It seems like you are having tons of confusion. Your parents are odd and your mental state is imbalaced. Try to focus what is best on your life. Think about your career as well, if after getting married, what will happen to it. Does he ever let you grant your freedom? Why is he marrying you? I hope it is not for Green Card. Your parents always can't make decision for you, you are the one who should make decision. If you really really love him, and is dedicated in doing whatsoever for him, then lets the nuptial start, otherwise forget the guy and focus on what is important in your life.