bostongirl if you have been dating for almost 4 years now.......you said "almost three and a half years and since he proposed to you last nite you couldn't give direct answer. if i am not wrong then you don't love HIM cause if you LOVE him you would have said it YES. btw what's the thing that is hindering you from saying YES . if you truly love him and wants to spend rest of your remaining LIFE with this guy then religion, race or other issues are not that important. I donno how this guy must be feeling now but i say DOKA! Mike how have i change? if it's for good thank you and if it's not for good thank you as well. Street boi have you found your new friends yet