Lol TM...although had been flustered all day with wat happened last night, you put a smile on my face :-) Thanks! I think both of our parents will turn around eventually (monopolistic advantage, your term applies to both of us) but we have had a long fight, so we just thought its better to do wats gonna make us happy at this point. You really hit me hard with 'justice delayed is justice denied'...I had made up my mind the minute before and after he asked (answer was yes) but not at the moment. He says he understands why I said that and he will ask again....I think I should just put this episode to rest for now before I go crazy over-thinking.