Hi Bathroomcoffee, You are misinterpreting me here, dude. I don't need any female date (or a male date for that matter). Period. If you want to eat free, that's another matter. You can email me and I can feed you--if you are so envious! What bothers me is this old mentality haunting you. While I was not even paying attention to the gender of the nicks--and I know how artificial they can be--you say I am hitting on every female sajha user!! How ludicrous. You can go back and check all the messages I have posted if you have so much free time in your hands to keep track of who is doing what on sajha. Are you doing a little surveillance for some bushies? I do know that virtual nicks need not be and cannot be correlated to any specific gender simply based on the phrasing/wording of the nicks. It may be said, though, that those who choose more gender-neutral nicks like bathroom coffee have deep-seated anxiety/uncertainty haunting their sexual identity. As a matter of fact, you seem to be obsessed with such gender issues as you are wont to interpreting everything from that narrow mindset that verges on the neurotic. I know how your psychic defense mechanism will respond now, but I care less about others on such issues. SS