" Last but not the least...do not show up your frustrattion here to frustate others...try to do something good... " Nanu, let the reality come up front. I say, let people bring out their frustration if they're frustrated. Let the folks living in Nepal know about the true image of the life in the USA. Don't put anything on shadow or try to hide the frustrated people. If people are frustrated , let's hear. Listen nanu, coming to USA is not like going to Banaras, okay. It takes a lot of money , okay little girl. It takes years and years of planning for a avg Nepali. Seperation from friends and family. Most cases, for avg Nepali , life long savings are invested. It's not like a vaccation place for most Nepalis where they can go if they don't like it. It's one way or the other for most Nepalis. It is a big investment and hope and if it doesn't work dreams dies, hope scattres. It' s not like you can give up living here, go back to Nepal and continue living your while from where you left off. It will destroy your self confidence, your hope, your dreams. Most importantly it will suck up your golden age of your life while trying to accomplish - nothing. So i advise every Nepali to be careful. America can be a bless or a curse. depends how smart you make your move. And nanu, please be sensitive. If you don't know things about Nepali society, if you do not know about a avg Nepali's hopes, dreams, and expectations, Please do not represent them . don't try to write in behalf of them, or give advises.