Age has never played a vital role in my life and hiding it has never been a part of me that is why i make it a point to celebrate my birthday every year with a bash and sometimes I try to celebrate even my half birthday, I have met quite a few people who were my senior in Nepal but are younger than me now and that is perfectly fine with me too. Sorry haddock for sounding so obvious and expecting you to figure out everything. I really did not want to get offensive with anyone but would you ignore if someone called you names and poked fun at you. Our main intent was to share our bad experience at OM, but Hush puppy calling me a "stingy B....tch" and more how would you justify that?? I am asking you that because you said "conversations are fun only when you critisize ideas not people" How can you critisize a resturant without mentioning how the management treated us?? I think your theory is applicable to individuals but in the public sector one has to be open to criticism and should be able to learn from their critics and try to improve for betterment. Lucky you!! having lunch and dinner in various good places let us know the names of good ones. thanks and no hard feelings and I didn't mean you were old when I said you sounded like one!!