hehehe thapap, yeah i too realized that we have few things in common. ;P. i do almost same stuffs that you do for living. :P, we have gone through similar alleys in the past. rest, let's keep secret haina ?:P sajhauser, i am with you on that. no culture is perfect, and ours is no exception. i believe, its for us - the youngsters to come up in front and modify/rectify it in accord with time. however, its imperative for all of us to not to forget our roots. just because it's not pleasant or you don't agree with it, does not make you a rebel! you've got to make it change for the betterment. americanization for betterment is always good. i think one need to find a balance between all cultures that they are exposed to. KILL U pitara, if your unwanted remark, that again has nothing to do with this thread, is on a note of levity and for a meer laughter, then here i go hehahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaa if not, then LISTEN! sajha is a virtual world and YOU never know what others are up to. i MAY be married and if my wife goes through your unwanted remarks, it bears a potential to evoke anger/mistrust/misjudgment in her part, in which case you owe me two powerful smacks on your left and right cheeks. YOU SURE YOU WANT THAT!!!! Just because i talk/interact with opposite genders in sajha, does NOT mean i am falling for her or vice versa. MAY BE IN YOUR CONSERVATIVE SOCIETY, IT"S POSSIBLE AND EMINENT, NOT IN OURS! LooTe