let us differnciate betwee pahadiya and madhesis. my great grand father migrated from kabhre. my grand father and and my dad was born in sarlahi and me too. what is my ethenicity? i feel proud to be called madhesi because i did not belong to kabhre i am from sarlahi. we as a nepali speaking people have enjoyed a first class citizen status in madhes throughout past. let us confess it. the nepali speaking have represented madhes in politics, economy and other sector: we can still see the generousity of madhes. madhes and madhesis being vocal and assertive is an issue and we discuss in good manner and spirit. once upon a time my hamily used to be zamindars. but i am a landless now. madhesis did not snached my lands we lost it. same way madhesis lost the opprtunities because the composition of state, ruling set up by aristocrats and innocence of madhesis. we should not cry on spoiled milk, let us discuss about the future and destiny- we are not destined to fight.