Pupiffy- yes its called slang, but I will try and use proper English if it is harder to understand. I would definitely agree with gurudev, it would be much harder immigrating to a non-English speaking country. I guess I’m kind of lucky in a sense that I have a lot of other Nepali friends here in the same boat as me and also other friends in similar situations. There are a lot of negatives but in a sense we get to have to the best of both worlds and maybe change some of the negative aspects of Nepali culture like the caste system. With our parents I think their stuck in a certain time frame of Nepal and they can’t help that, they have been bought up with this and that’s what they see as right and wrong. This is not incorrect but in a sense neither is what their children want. I’m sure when were all older and tell them the things we got up to, they will be quite shocked.