ya you are right but I am talking about other people who you dont know at all......... for example a person that you meet for the first time .... or any one that you have to deal with...... Ya jus to remind you all who are going to read this thread and post other views...... this behavorial reasons and analysis doesn't apply to the beloved or intimates.... i will try to avoid that here..i am pretty sure You love your boyfren or girlfren more than anyone else and find him/her perfect from every angle... thankyou Captain Haddock for reminding me that.... i am sure you will like this thread I am preparing for my first personality and will be out soon