We are all human beings, and it's in our nature to be selfish. We idealize democracy, individualism, capatilism. So, let a few, if not most Nepalis be selfish if they wish to. It don't bother me a bit because associated with those feelings are other compounding negative feelings too. I know those people aren't happy, no matter how much they pretend to. So, I am lucky to be free of those associated feelings because I see every Nepalis as my own family, bar caste, creed, or social status. Love, Prabha