well i guess it's a pretty gray zone to debate about..i guess sometimes selfishness rules more than anything else. i went thru some though times passing by very close to this issue. my gf(ex) got pregnant after having messed up with someone (not me) the first year she reached US and it was a pretty big shock to me although it was pretty much decided by then that we were over with our relationship that she lost her patience. But well getting back to her being pregnant it still felt very bad that she was a nepali girl, from a conservative,protective and good family, and on top unmarried. And worst of all I still loved her like i always did for years and couldn't imagine how she and her family would face the situation if she were to give birth. At that time it was a question of a life I did not even know that ever existed against the misery that the person I loved will have to go thru for it,,and I tried like hell to persuade her to abort..it worked after a lot of effort that she finally gathered her guts to do it. I guess she felt relieved after it, as far as i know (dont know for sure). I am a pro life person, but I guess every human being has that selfish and hypocrite part inside which does show up at times like that. I guess lot of us would act like that if it were our unmarried little sisters or someone u loved dearly going thru the dilemma..it's easy to advocate for or against it..but i guess it is a whole different issue when u come face to face with it and the pain of chosing your fate..but again there is this whole issue that some people take it for granted that abortion is an easy way out for all that thoughtlessness one showed before indulging in the act leading to it,, as if abortion is nothing but just another form of contraceptive that could be used at anytime not to be a mom/ dad. Out of curiosity I was lookin at the pics of aborted foetus in the net,,it's horrific,,the little form of life coming out in pieces as if it were strands of noodles..and the description of the process,,poking in the back of the head with sharp tool,,vacuum suction..i just feel lucky that i was not one of them..